简单

一直被称说简单的，乍看之下似乎真的很简单；但一旦要落实去实行时，才会发现原来一点都不简单。就光比较“简单”和“复杂”这两个词，竟然书写“简单”的笔画会比“复杂”来得多！前者21画；后者15画。惊奇的是连“困难”都只不过是17画。简单，是可遇不可求，是奢侈的。有不少人希望过着简单的生活，可是往往却事与愿违。我也想每天都简简单单地，可是却不得不与复杂的事周旋到底，逃也逃不了。随缘，是多么的潇洒。能真正做到随缘也许就能凡事求得简单，远离一切复杂烦人的事。数不尽的人口说随缘，心里却耿耿于怀。随缘，随遇而安是不可多得的。促使我们与简单背道而驰的是执著。执著教我们追求一定的完美，也让自己陷入一定的窘境。为了达至完美，使自己烦躁不少，夜夜失眠，时时焦虑。随缘简单不是教你随便，而是变通，放下执著，用不同的角度与观点去衡量，去剖析，去接受。接受，需要很大的勇气，就是因为接受不了，才会衍生种种令自己不愉快的事。不是教你凡事低头，听天由命，而是要明白自己并没有那种福报以至所有的愿望都能成真。虽然如此，我坚信只要有信心，肯努力，还是会有机会的。不管结果怎样，至少没有让生命留白。所以我选择相信只要心好，日日都好，处处都好。

Friendship and bonding

Bonding is the linkage that link atoms together which form molecule later. The bonding may be sharing of electrons, donating of electron pair(s) or simply attraction of different charges present. Friendship is bonding, links two people together. We might share whatever we have with our friend or just playing a role as contributor. We share our happiness, sadness with friends. In the other ways, we need friends to sweep away our loneliness, to fill up our emptiness. When we are suffering, a good friend will always give us a hand to comfort us in whatever way. Like the effect of electron donating of an atom to another atom. The most interesting thing is friendship may start because of attraction of her beauty or his macho. Well, it sounds a different story already. It goes beyond friendship what I meant here. Anyhow, after the existed bonding, we still want to study the strength of that kind of bonding. Whether it is strong, medium strong, weak or easily breaks off anytime. It’s undeniable to say that a strong bond in friendship is getting less n less among us. Most of the relationship built mainly for own benefit. Making use of someone has become something that’s so common. The real original reason of making friends seem went deviated. A friend can share whatever good things you have, but, how many of them willing to give you a hand when you in such a need? Not everyone can be our friend or good friend. Just like the atoms, not all of them can bonded together to form a stable compound or molecule. They will easily break off even they bonded together. Even they are considered stable, however under certain conditions; they will still break up become atoms again. Upset as ‘eternity’ seems no longer exist either in love affair and inter-person relationship. Someone that I thought a good friend may be that one who hurt me the most. Don’t blame that why someone does not like us, as there is nobody is responsible to love anyone. We are always the only one who should love and care ourselves, never someone else. I wish for a strong bonding exists in me and my friends, even I understand well that that is impossible. Anyhow, living with hopes will strengthen us more than without any hope. Friends, could we be friends for …… I couldn’t tell how long it should be, but I hope it will be rather long.

番茄。熊

从前不知怎么地，番茄与熊是快乐的一对。只能说是缘分把他们两个连接了起来。很无稽吧，好像怎么也不能把熊与番茄放在一起吧？可是事实却是如此。熊在一段日子下，发觉自己喜欢上了成天和自己吵嘴，聊天，一起混的番茄。熊每天都很开心的，因为有番茄。后来熊和番茄为了一些事吵得脸红耳赤，闹僵了，甚至不再找对方了。几天后，熊与番茄还是和好了。每一次和番茄炒架，熊的心就像被刀在剁，血一滴一滴地流。笨笨傻傻的熊每次都把话当真的，每一次说不要再联络，就以为是他们就这样结束了。因为他真的以为自己永远都不能拥有番茄，自己只是番茄生命中的其中一个过客。熊挣扎了一些时间，终于又鼓起勇气向番茄告白。熊原本以为番茄会接受自己的告白，然后进入蜜运中，开始小两口的恋爱旅程。可是熊却没有想到这次的告白又换来了另一次的冷战。熊友很多的疑问，为什么？为什么？为什么番茄到现在还不懂我心里在想什么？熊的心很痛，心在滴血，不禁地泪水从脸颊上划过。熊已经绝望了……番茄在一些日子后，终于接受了熊的告白。，熊兴奋不已！庆幸自己终于打动了番茄让她接受了自己。番茄的贴心与细心，让熊幸福洋溢地流着鼻血。一段日子后，熊还是发现了原来自己早已对番茄的爱已经转淡了。那只笨熊竟然在之前的吵吵闹闹中逐渐把对番茄的感觉放下了。熊挣扎了很久，终于把自己的感觉告了番茄。番茄没有为此而与熊吵架，反而接受了熊自私的意愿，退回好朋友的位置。番茄痛心地告诉了熊，最痛彻心肺的是一个你爱的人已不再爱你，不再对你有感觉。熊永远都会记得番茄说的那番话。就这样，熊和番茄分开了。自私的笨熊还把番茄的生日记错了，害得番茄哭了。熊真的很懊悔当初的自己。一个如此为自己付出，疼爱自己的人，熊却一次又一次地伤害她。熊叹息的也许是时间吧！爱在不同的时间原来也是白费的！你爱他时，他未必也爱你；当他爱你时，你却又未必爱着他……四年了，熊一直都想起番茄，不知道她是否还好，男友是否有好好地对待她等等有的没的……熊不敢再期望那么的一天会有机会弥补那次的遗憾，只祈求番茄永远都开开心心的……后来我终算学会了如何去爱，可惜你早已远去小，消失在人海。后来终于在眼泪中明白，有些人一旦错过就不再。原来缘分还得有时间的携手才能把两个恋人紧握在一起。缘分把熊和番茄连接在一起，时间却狠狠地把他们分开。