Friendship and bonding

Bonding is the linkage that link atoms together which form molecule later. The bonding may be sharing of electrons, donating of electron pair(s) or simply attraction of different charges present. Friendship is bonding, links two people together. We might share whatever we have with our friend or just playing a role as contributor. We share our happiness, sadness with friends. In the other ways, we need friends to sweep away our loneliness, to fill up our emptiness. When we are suffering, a good friend will always give us a hand to comfort us in whatever way. Like the effect of electron donating of an atom to another atom. The most interesting thing is friendship may start because of attraction of her beauty or his macho. Well, it sounds a different story already. It goes beyond friendship what I meant here. Anyhow, after the existed bonding, we still want to study the strength of that kind of bonding. Whether it is strong, medium strong, weak or easily breaks off anytime. It’s undeniable to say that a strong bond in friendship is getting less n less among us. Most of the relationship built mainly for own benefit. Making use of someone has become something that’s so common. The real original reason of making friends seem went deviated. A friend can share whatever good things you have, but, how many of them willing to give you a hand when you in such a need? Not everyone can be our friend or good friend. Just like the atoms, not all of them can bonded together to form a stable compound or molecule. They will easily break off even they bonded together. Even they are considered stable, however under certain conditions; they will still break up become atoms again. Upset as ‘eternity’ seems no longer exist either in love affair and inter-person relationship. Someone that I thought a good friend may be that one who hurt me the most. Don’t blame that why someone does not like us, as there is nobody is responsible to love anyone. We are always the only one who should love and care ourselves, never someone else. I wish for a strong bonding exists in me and my friends, even I understand well that that is impossible. Anyhow, living with hopes will strengthen us more than without any hope. Friends, could we be friends for …… I couldn’t tell how long it should be, but I hope it will be rather long.